Went to a house party on saturday, before my cold really turned into mild flu. My friend shares a flat with a barzilian couple. they have been together for 15 years and the girl is only now 29yrs. He cheats on her regulalry and they have arguments about his wayward willy all the time but he refuses to learn to peak English and go out and have her own life. Instead she threatens to kill herself if he leaves her which would be selfish as she has a little boy.

Anyway, the party almost didnt happen because she was thretening not to attend or help cook. the usual thing then. I arrived with a friend and the party was almost in full swing. everyone was dressed up, there was a couple there young looking couple, a brazilian boy and a portuguese girl and one other flatmate who is portuguese but his stunning girlfriend is french. they are barely in their 20s, i should have felt ancient but i was actually in my elemnet. I can handle young men and women;). We all chatted, a weird woman i had met at the flat before came in, my friend didnt recognise her(the one who lives in that flat), she started speaking to the girl i had come with. they are both from Poland and discovered they know the same person/families etc. The playboy husband started saying a few phrases in polish which my friend translated. he knows a lot of intimate terms it seems...the bone of contention between the coupld. Why does he need to know "i love you, i miss you, i wannna make love to you" in polish when he has a portuguese wife.

Most people know he has a girl from poland who keeps telling him she wants to spend her life with him. He tried to get "fresh" with all the girls there and his poor stubborn wife was getting upset. Otherwise the food was great, they'd got a massive fish from the market,it looked more like a shark and everyone devoured it and more.

later on asi was leaving, the other boy(with the portuguese girl) came down to say goodbye and told me he wants to invite me to his birthday party and blew me kisses. i blew kisses back, i was slightly tipsy and of course i was flirtting with everyone. Last night i got a text from my friend in the flat telling me the young man was asking for my phone number. I said, he's mad, his girlfriend will kill him and me after. I also asked how old he was. Apparently he is 21. he looks it or younger. It apppears he'd also asked if he could sleep in my friend's bed on the night of the party. I didnt bother to ask where the girlfriend was expected to sleep.

I am not looking at barzilian men or boys. they seem to want their cake and eat it too. but a 21yr old is just pushing it too far with me...