I am sure i have bitched about some friendships before so i will keep this little rant short and sweet:p. I have recieved an email from a friend(we live worlds) and she was berating me for asking about a girl we both know. She calims she emailed me about her own state of (bad) health and feels I am not being supportive, i am ignoring her emails and why am i asking about belinda.

Number one, i reponded to the email and i was very spportive, she keeps changing her email addresses so it's not my issue if she didn't get my message.
Two:Her issues with Belinda, who i incidentally knew before I ever met her but kept my distance because they kep competing for my attention by saying bad stuff about me and attributing it to each other, has nothing to do with me. I kept my distance from both of them, but we've kept in contact on and off.

I have my own issues to deal with, and i dont demand my friends to drop everything everythime. I have to female friends who although lovely have to see me all the time even when i want time to myself. Then they think it's personal, i dont like them anymore.

I think women should sometimes grow up. If they have deeper emotional needs than just a pep talk to a friend, then therapy is available. I think i am a supportive friend, and they tend to take me for granted because i always make time to see them even if i would rather be curled up in bed because i'm damned tired. This silly email though was the last straw>:-[