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by phinebooty @ Monday, 21. Jul, 2008 - 12:20:22

yesterday morning one of the managers(a silly 20yr old) was spolining for a fight. from the time i came in half sayinggood morning to the point when he flipped out, instructed me to follow him into the office and asked me if i had a problem with him. I said "no". he then said" can you do me a favour and shut up when i'm talking?! i dont know what your problem is, i think you have an attitude problem and maybe you need to go home and think and come back refreshed next week".

I turned round, took my mobile to ring his superior and told him what had trnspired. he tried to intturupt and told me to come down and take a little break. I told him i was going home to think about my attitude ajnd i'd see him hnext week. He was like a rabbit stuck in headlights. really impotent in his response. He said maybe the little boy did not feel respected(like i care? i mean his self esteem issues are not my rpoblem), so i took my stuff and left.

I had a really well-deserved 3hour nap, went out with a friend after and went to my landlord's birthday party after that.

Ive never been so livid and happy at the same time. i felt bad for letting the team down but i wont have a finger jabbed in my face and be told to shut up. he wasnt talking, i was speaking to someone esle and he was seeking attention.

I am wondering if i should lodge a formal complaint because he has upset several people before and one person quit because of him...

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ganesharocksganesharocks [Member]
http://yogini.blog.ca
21/07/08 @ 13:34

Politics suck! I truly dislike this sort of thing. What an idiot Phine. Good luck with whatever you choose to do...remember murder is illegal :))

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phinebootyphinebooty [Member]
22/07/08 @ 11:22

i think it's a great pity that murder is illegal;)

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Chyna_DollChyna_Doll [Member]
21/07/08 @ 14:14

How patronising! x

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phinebootyphinebooty [Member]
22/07/08 @ 11:23

i know! the fact that he didnt even try to get us together to resolve the matter(i mean the gen manager) showed me once and for all that he's got no back bone. i thought of emailing the powers that be, but actually i will write a formal letter and ask them to put it on file

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yackyackyackyack [Member]
http://robwatts.blog.co.uk
21/07/08 @ 14:39

Complain PB - don't suffer it.

He sounds like an ickle woncur

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phinebootyphinebooty [Member]
22/07/08 @ 11:24

Thanks yacky, he is a right idiot and needs to grow up, none of us cannot understand why he is still in the job. I am going to write a formal letter and ask them to put it on file, i dont think email is a good idea...what do you think?

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rob [Visitor]
http://robwatts.blog.co.uk
22/07/08 @ 13:21

formal letter and email.

don't vent, just state how you feel that his behaviour was both unwelcome and disrespectful.

we are all entitled to be treated courteously. any company worth its salt will recognise that.

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PrincessFionaPrincessFiona [Member]
21/07/08 @ 20:21

Bloody prick!

Complain, file an official one

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phinebootyphinebooty [Member]
22/07/08 @ 11:25

do u think i should send an email or write a proper letter and give it to the bosses?

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PrincessFionaPrincessFiona [Member]
22/07/08 @ 11:32

an email will work or a written letter

but if that boss has attitude issues its better to sort it now

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adamantixxadamantixx [Member]
http://adamantixx.blog.co.uk
21/07/08 @ 21:32

that little twat needs to grow-up fast and learn that respect has to be earned and doesn't just come with the job!
glad to see you still have some fire in your belly, darlin x

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phinebootyphinebooty [Member]
22/07/08 @ 11:26

thanks my dear, i still dont know wherther to go the email route to the bosses or write a letter and print it out. what do u think?

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adamantixxadamantixx [Member]
http://adamantixx.blog.co.uk
22/07/08 @ 21:20

i think a letter is the best way, darlin, because they can always pretend they never received an email and therefore turn a blind eye to your grievances.
good luck, hunny! x

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RunDontWalkRunDontWalk pro
http://menomamauk.blog.co.uk
22/07/08 @ 02:05

At lest you stood your ground and refused to be bullied.

Hugs

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phinebootyphinebooty [Member]
22/07/08 @ 11:27

yes i did, tho' a had a twinge of guilt after leaving knowing i was v=creating extra work for the others. however, they needed to know i refuse to be bullied

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kiki [Visitor]
http://www.kikita.blog.co.uk
28/07/08 @ 19:37

Hi phine :wave:
I agree that you must do a formal complain about it yes, it is too much!
Hope all fine with you,
have FUN :)
xxx
Kiki

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