That's me. Three friends I havent seen in a long time emailed me a picture of them together at a little reunion recently. One had a kid 9months ago, another has always been on the hefty side even in school, big curves and the other was always tall with endless legs. coulda modelled really.

Miss Tall told me a while ago that someone from the past saw her and asked if she was pregnant. She was offended by the question obviously and i couldnt imagine that she'd gained so much weight that she looked pregnant.Then she sent me recent pictures from her engagement party and she looked stunningly beautiful, not a bump in sight. However, seeing the photo of the three of them today....my first insitct was when did she get pregnant?! she has a nice round belly and she was wearing skinny trousers with a fitted top and it looked to be a a sexy pregnancy belly.

I emailed back and theanked them for the photo, commenting that the curvy one looked great(which she did, I was seeing her for the first time in a dress looking girly), i commented that miss Tall still looked taller, after deleting stuff about her having to watch out. The other one has shed much of the baby weight but she'll never be as skinny as she was.

So where did i go wrong? eventually i couldnt resist and sent her a text saying she should reduce the sherperds pies (because she had said how much she bakes then and eats). of course she was offended and said she thought we had all agreed to stop discussing weight and asked what it was i was trying to say. I said apologised and said i didnt mean anything by it(which is a lie) but still said she should be careful.

Now i am feeling very very guilty. I wish i had had the self control and not done anything because it wasn't nice and it was hurtful. So i was a shitty friend and she hasnt responded and i am wondering if i should phone later.

She still looks pregnant tho...