A girl i know has just been howling like a hyena. i rather suspected someone might be dead as i dont know how someone can be so anguished unles there is news of death. I was right, two of her friends calmed her down a bit and i asked her what happened. Her mother died. She lives abroad. I can't imagine anything worse than ebing told your mother has died over the phone. Atleast I got to see mine before she died. I think she is still in shock.

I feel upset now. I told her i was sorry but what more can i say? those words are never enough. I hugged her as well. She's like a zombie. She knows my mother is dead and and i can understand to some extent how she feels but i can never claim to know. All i know is the worst is coming for her and i hope she will have support to deal with the aftermath. She is an oly child and "best friends" with her mother.
sad. reallt sad. I know it's part of life but it's still sad.

oh, the mother had the flu???!!